Rejoice, because I am back, bitches.

Hello everyone. Miss Me much? I know you did, because I got a ton of fan mail from subs and some messages from Domme friends asking where and how I was. To the ladies, thanks for checking up on Me. To the subs, well, thank to you too. I rarely thank boys because I feel it is their obligation to put forth effort in making Me aware of them, but, what the hell. It’s the new year and My 1st post, so consider this your treat.

So, to answer the question, “where have I been?” I have been everywhere. Started off in New York City, then Napa, Ca, then San Francisco, and back to Sac. Mostly taking care of business but definitely been enjoying a much needed break from the online “FinDomosphere” as bennifer would say. Partying with My besties, going out with friends, being taken out by subs, being invited to fetish events, attending a pleasure party are just some of the things I have been up to. Also had some family and friends come into town, which was nice, and definitely enjoyed our new president’s inauguration.

I have been online, posting here and there on a few sites… so, some of you already prepared yourself for My return. I have also been immersed in some side projects that will be launching soon, which include taking My business ideas to the next level (thanks to advice from mzdevon) and completing 3 of 5 long awaited/long overdue sites that I have been working with My partners (TheMostHighExalted and bennifer). I’ll plug those when they are nearer to launch. But probably the most important thing I have been working on is getting back into school. I have decided that I want to go for My PhD, and get My Master’s along the way. My area of focus will be a culmination between Feminist/Gender/Sexuality/Social and Psychological Studies. I want to be “Dr. Domme,” as goddesssue put it. So, I have been talking with some professors from My undergraduate studies and doing some research as to where I want to go, and the requirements for getting in. I have yet to decided WHERE I want to go, but I definitely know it will take a lot of studying for the GRE which I will probably take in the summer.

Now, as for the question of, “how have I been?” I have been great! …Well, mostly. I am currently sick with a cold that wont go away, but other than that, since having let go of all the stresses in My life, I am doing good. By the end of 2008, I was really feeling the burn. I decided to put more effort into Me, and by doing so, axed all of the subs who served Me last year because they weren’t up to par and I am not for settling. I also sat down and put a lot of thought into the direction I want to go in life– hence the decision to go back to school. And I even decided to focus on getting healthier since I am traveling and doing as much as I am, I will mos def need more energy.

I have also been spending a lot of time with friends and family. My besties have taken a real interest in the R/t scene, so I have been talking to them a lot about events and related stuff. Before the end of ’08I also came out to some of My family members- Mom, cousins, etc. So that’s been great and really freeing to be able to be Myself around them. My mom has even taken interest in the idea of FinDom. I doubt she will get into it, and I am not sure I’d really want her too, but she did request of and received a gift from bennifer.

Anyways, that’s all for now. I do plan on posting some updates about My NYC trip and those projects I was talking of, so make sure you keep up to date!

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NYC, Here I Come!

Just back from the spa. Had a luxurious time having a neck, arm, hand and foot massage, foot and hand paraffin, and a soothing facial. Now My skin is radiant… too bad I am running late, so no pics for you… but a boy can dream, can’t he? haha… dream about how smooth to the touch My skin feels– though you wouldn’t ever be allowed… and how deliciously beautiful My white tipped finger and toenails look, though your filthy tongue doesn’t deserve the taste.

I still need to shower and prep, run one last errand and Off to the airport for My red eye to NYC. So, happy holidays to everyone. To some of you (you know who you are), I will see you in soon. To the rest of the unfortunate… I will see you in your dreams!

Check the Twitter for updates until I settle in tomorrow afternoon.

 Love Me lots and wish Me well. <3

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LA Recap for that Ass (updated)

So, this is the recap of My LA trip from a few weeks back… I spent about 4 days down there on business and pleasure. 

Wednesday morning was so hectic.  I was up at 1:30 am to finish packing and getting ready to head out the door.  I am surprised I even managed to do it since I was out until 10:30 with My friend the night before, having dinner.  I was leaving out of SFO because there were no more flights for the day I wanted, out of SMF.  Anyways, fast forwarding through the long drive, lines and posh accommodations ala southwest, I landed in LA in time for what I had to do– which lasted ALL day.  I thought I was going to die.  Anyways, once that was over, I headed to La Feliz, for a quick coffee and to wait for My friend to get off work.  Let Me tell you… I have never seen so many douchebags as I saw in that starbucks, in My life… including the time I went to Jersey!  All the guys were over processed, all the girls were hipsters, emos, or some combination of the two.  It was hard to even enjoy My coffee with soprano wanna be on one side of Me and fall out boy die groupie on the other.  Thank god it wasn’t a long wait. 

That night, I met up with Myy ex College Housemate and we had dinner at this cute little Thia house.  We were sat next too these two old, white guys.  Every once and while we made eye contact with each other… nothing big, though.  But I couldn’t help but think about how great it would be if I could dominate them into paying for our evening’s activities.  None of My LA friends are Dommes.  Though they know about Me being one, they are at most, slightly intrigued, but not moved enough to do it, unlike My Sacramento friends who are more extroverted and have participated with Me.  Anyways, the good old boys were lucky that night… The friend I was having dinner with wouldn’t have been ready for anything to go down, even if they threw their wallets on our tables.  …It was a nice thought, though, lol.  After that, we wrapped up dinner and took a stroll down the Hollywood strip and ended the night rather quickly because I was exhausted from My then, 23 hrs day.

Thursday was a wash, I spent it all day in PJs watching tv, playing street fighter and chowing down on NY style Pizza which wasn’t very NY stylish.  I did manage to get up the effort to get ready for dinner at “shaboo shaboo” (sp?) (some Japanese, cook it yourself at the table style restaurant) with My cousin.  It was really good food, even though you had to essentially cook it yourself.

Friday was a better day for Me.  I was to be spending much of the day with a bitchling.  The plan was to show Me around LA a little, find some fetish shops, eat and then session.  It didn’t actually pan out in that order, but everything that needed to get done got done.  It started out with him picking Me up at My friend’s house.  He was a cute little, 20 year old, hot body.  He was very well mannered and arrived early and waited patiently for Me to finish getting ready.  Once I was ready, I had him drive down the street to meet Me.  I did look stunning in My black dress, black latex boots and belt, and deep red lipstick.  We drove around for a bit, and talked.  He was nervous, it was cute.  He was also unfamiliar with LA driving which added to her nerves.  A number of times I had to direct him as to when to “take it” otherwise we would have never made it through a stoplight.

1st stop was Melrose strip. I didn’t even get out of the car, I was so bored of the hipster shops.  So, we detoured to this little gay area.  I forget the exact area, but it wasn’t too far from Melrose.  They had a kinky bookstore where I got batteries for My camera and a couple of fetish and sex shops which we went to.  I made it a point to get the bitchlings blood flowing, if you know what I mean, that way he’s be forced to walk around with a hard on.  In the sex shop, I even pointed out about the two small “drips” showing on the front of his slacks… to which he replied, “sorry, Mistress.”

The 1st sex shop we went to was just fluff stuff.  A lot of gay things, as always, but not very fetish oriented.  The bitchling was in panties, but they were way too small, so we looked at others and decided on another lacy pair, which ended up being too small as well because of his bubble butt.  I also picked out some stocking for him to wear later, which we never even got around to because things got pushed back a little with LA traffic.

The 2nd shop was much larger, less gay and more fetishy.  It had the usual sex gag props, which annoy Me because they are just stupid.  But they had this whole back area with tons of stuff.  I compared some of the items I owned with what they sold and was pleased that the things that mattered to Me, like My dog hood, were all of better quality than what they sold.  I didn’t have time to look around too much, but it was a decent place with lots of customers, unlike the 1st shop.  I could tell it was the “place to be,” with all of the interesting looking people– old couples, gay couples, young couples, emo-sters, Me and the bitchling, and some other college frat type guys.  I got some strawberry scented body wax, a lighter, red bondage tape, fetish dice, and a couple other things which escape Me at this point– of course, he paid.

Once we left there, we headed to grab a bite at this little french restaurant.  Because it was early in the day, all the old bitties were out in full force.  My boots got a lot of attention, which was whatever.  I was fully clothed– My knee caps were barely exposed between the dress and the boots.  I have a boatnecked dress on, and was even wearing a sweater becaise it was a bit cold.  I felt I was really conservative, but it didn’t stop the gawkers from dong what they do best.  I will say that this one old lady, she was totally cute, had the brightest red hair I had ever seen in My life… she gave Me a wink on her way out because she got Me.  Everyone else was just in the dark looking for the light.  I tell ya, they are lucky I don’t live down there, because I wouldn’t mind showing a few of them a thing or two.  Anyways, I ordered the worst tasting french dip sandwich ever.  How do you mess that up?  It’s bread, cheese, meat and au jou.  Never again!  I should have written this blog earlier, but because I didn’t I forgot their name.  Sorry!  Just look out for the signs- gaytown, LA… french restaurant, old people, etc; just keep on driving, trust Me.

After lunch, we headed to the room.  By the time we got left that french debauchery of a place, there was a massive amount of traffic, so it took forfuckingever.  Once we got there, we were pressed for time, because we both had shit to do later that evening.  I made him strip naked and kneel while I prepped things.  After I was done, and had everything all laid out, I made him freshen up, then inspected him and critiqued him.  I brought a lot of toys, some of which I ended up not using because of the lack of time.  I brought My 3 floggers, one leather, one deerskin, and the last of which was a tiny leather one for the genitals.  I also brought My dog hood, some medical tools, some gags, a paddle, nip clamps, and the stuff from the shop.  I had instructed him to bring the few toys he had, which he did, however, most were anal toys.

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Today Was a Good Day

well, it was actually a warm day in Sacramento… and though I had a late start due to My headache, I managed to get everything I needed done, with time to spare. Go Me! So, that gave Me a chance to check My PO BOX and to My surprise, some boxes came earlier than I expected. A week ago, some credit card, loser freak got Me some items on My wishlist for a themed photoshoot I will do when I come back… and some of them came in. I also had a mystery tribute which I love so much, that came just in time… a $200 GC to Torrid. Of course, I didn’t waste anytime blowing it on some cute dresses and leggings for NYC. Too bad the total came up to like $206 bucks or something. Next time send more, you hear Me?!

   

Anyways, here are some pics of the goods. Excuse the bedding or lackthereof… I am washing them as I type. I know there will be some more fun stuff waiting for Me in My box when I return to Californication in January… but I want more! I especially want some more books to read. you can find the wishlist here:

So, at about this time tomorrow, I will be at the airport awaiting My departure to NYC.  I heard it was extremely cold there, which I am not looking forward to, but eh… whatevs.  Some subs contacted Me on CollarMe asking if I was in need of their service… to which I replied mostly no, because they were lame, but there are a few potentials who seem eager and willing, so if it comes to fruition, I should have some good stories to share. 

Tomorrow I wont be around much, because I have to go to the store, then get a facial and then hit the road.  But I will be taking My laptop with Me because I have some work to do on My site which will be launching upon My return… so hopefully I will get around to doing some updates in a timely manner, but it’s not likely, lol.

Wish Me well, bitches!

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On your Knees for Me in NYC

I will be in NYC from Dec 24- Jan 2. I am extremely interested in visiting some fetish venues. So, any local subs looking to serve should immediately make themselves available to Moi.

‘nuf said.

Also, any cool Dommes looking to hang, drop Me a line.

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Updates Galore

So, as you noticed, I have been updating My blog like crazy because there is so much going on and it excites Me to the fullest. Lemme break it down for ya.

1) Don’t you just love the NEW BG for My various profiles? I know you do… because I do! Also, it is awesome in the best kinda way, and there is no denying that.

2) I would like to launch My Official Casino of Financial Fuckery page on NF. Enjoy!

3) I am working on My websites. The 1st of which, MistressMadame.com will be launching soon. RealmofServility.com and Dominatia.com will follow, shortly after. So, anyone interested in a link exchange, lemme know. I am accepting reciprocal banners of 300×100 sizing.

That’s all for now. I am tired and need to break from viewing this computer screen. I am sure I will edit this list a little later.

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Dinner for 2 on you!

I am back from LA. Had a blast, though it was a bit hectic. This past 9 days (subsequent to My trip) was such a blur… I didn’t even have time to write as I went, but whatever. I am actually getting to it now… in My usual late manner, but whatever! I know you will enjoy as always.

So, backtracking to Tuesday the 2nd– I met up with a hottie-bo-bottie Domme friend of Mine for the Grand Pre-opening dinner at this nice, new restaurant here in Sac, where she has an “In.” It was nice; I looked great, so did she. We ate, drank and were merry for free! Mmm, the food always tastes better on when someone else is covering the tab… or so I thought. The food was cool, but not grand. The proportions were small, which was to be expected, but the flavor barely made up for it, which was not so to be expected. Really, what is the point of a $170 tab that consisted of a couple of Belvederes, wine, some olive/cheese/meat assortments for appetizers, then lamb, which came spaghetti squash and shortribs that just melted off the bone, which came with some kind of potato something for entrees, and cheese cake for desserts if it was just mediocre? We plan on going back, since her “in” has the hook up, but I hope it’s a better experience than the 1st. At least the food looked pretty, too bad I forgot to take pictures of it. you will have to settle for some of the nice scenery.

I took those pics while I was waiting for her to arrive, since she was late. And to think, she barraded Me about being on time, haha. Anyways, it was funny, while I was sitting at the bar, the guy a chair or so down from Me (not featured in this pic, clearly) started trying to hit on Me. I snubbed him as nicely as I could, since it wasn’t that kind of party. He was dressed like a slacker college reject. And I was looking like this:

(with black leggings and black knee high boots to boot!)

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I’m Back, bitches.

I know, I know… it’s been too long!  But I am back from LA, as some of you know, and I have been very, very, very busy with My site.  It’s coming a long nicely, so, I decided to take a break and catch up on all the juiciness that I have so selfishly deprived you of.  I will be posting a flurry of backdates from the beginning of December til now.  So, sit back, snuggle up, and enjoy.  This one’s on the house.

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iTunes help!

God! I have a massive headache that wont go away and all I want is for My Itunes to be formatted.  Is that so much to ask for?  I need to update My iphone tomorrow, I want all My music to show correctly in the Ipod.  Is someone willing to do this mundane BUT imporant work for Me so My head wont implode?

I will send you the zip, you delete the duplicates, rename the erroneous so it shows in My Ipod as “artist name – song” that way it can be easily sorted through for My convenience.

Yeah, I know service isn’t as sexy if I am not going on cam and shaking My ass, but whatever… I’ll have to owe ya one.

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Quick and Dirty Update

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