Rejoice, because I am back, bitches.

Hello everyone. Miss Me much? I know you did, because I got a ton of fan mail from subs and some messages from Domme friends asking where and how I was. To the ladies, thanks for checking up on Me. To the subs, well, thank to you too. I rarely thank boys because I feel it is their obligation to put forth effort in making Me aware of them, but, what the hell. It’s the new year and My 1st post, so consider this your treat.

So, to answer the question, “where have I been?” I have been everywhere. Started off in New York City, then Napa, Ca, then San Francisco, and back to Sac. Mostly taking care of business but definitely been enjoying a much needed break from the online “FinDomosphere” as bennifer would say. Partying with My besties, going out with friends, being taken out by subs, being invited to fetish events, attending a pleasure party are just some of the things I have been up to. Also had some family and friends come into town, which was nice, and definitely enjoyed our new president’s inauguration.

I have been online, posting here and there on a few sites… so, some of you already prepared yourself for My return. I have also been immersed in some side projects that will be launching soon, which include taking My business ideas to the next level (thanks to advice from mzdevon) and completing 3 of 5 long awaited/long overdue sites that I have been working with My partners (TheMostHighExalted and bennifer). I’ll plug those when they are nearer to launch. But probably the most important thing I have been working on is getting back into school. I have decided that I want to go for My PhD, and get My Master’s along the way. My area of focus will be a culmination between Feminist/Gender/Sexuality/Social and Psychological Studies. I want to be “Dr. Domme,” as goddesssue put it. So, I have been talking with some professors from My undergraduate studies and doing some research as to where I want to go, and the requirements for getting in. I have yet to decided WHERE I want to go, but I definitely know it will take a lot of studying for the GRE which I will probably take in the summer.

Now, as for the question of, “how have I been?” I have been great! …Well, mostly. I am currently sick with a cold that wont go away, but other than that, since having let go of all the stresses in My life, I am doing good. By the end of 2008, I was really feeling the burn. I decided to put more effort into Me, and by doing so, axed all of the subs who served Me last year because they weren’t up to par and I am not for settling. I also sat down and put a lot of thought into the direction I want to go in life– hence the decision to go back to school. And I even decided to focus on getting healthier since I am traveling and doing as much as I am, I will mos def need more energy.

I have also been spending a lot of time with friends and family. My besties have taken a real interest in the R/t scene, so I have been talking to them a lot about events and related stuff. Before the end of ’08I also came out to some of My family members- Mom, cousins, etc. So that’s been great and really freeing to be able to be Myself around them. My mom has even taken interest in the idea of FinDom. I doubt she will get into it, and I am not sure I’d really want her too, but she did request of and received a gift from bennifer.

Anyways, that’s all for now. I do plan on posting some updates about My NYC trip and those projects I was talking of, so make sure you keep up to date!

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On your Knees for Me in NYC

I will be in NYC from Dec 24- Jan 2. I am extremely interested in visiting some fetish venues. So, any local subs looking to serve should immediately make themselves available to Moi.

‘nuf said.

Also, any cool Dommes looking to hang, drop Me a line.

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Updates Galore

So, as you noticed, I have been updating My blog like crazy because there is so much going on and it excites Me to the fullest. Lemme break it down for ya.

1) Don’t you just love the NEW BG for My various profiles? I know you do… because I do! Also, it is awesome in the best kinda way, and there is no denying that.

2) I would like to launch My Official Casino of Financial Fuckery page on NF. Enjoy!

3) I am working on My websites. The 1st of which, MistressMadame.com will be launching soon. RealmofServility.com and Dominatia.com will follow, shortly after. So, anyone interested in a link exchange, lemme know. I am accepting reciprocal banners of 300×100 sizing.

That’s all for now. I am tired and need to break from viewing this computer screen. I am sure I will edit this list a little later.

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Dinner for 2 on you!

I am back from LA. Had a blast, though it was a bit hectic. This past 9 days (subsequent to My trip) was such a blur… I didn’t even have time to write as I went, but whatever. I am actually getting to it now… in My usual late manner, but whatever! I know you will enjoy as always.

So, backtracking to Tuesday the 2nd– I met up with a hottie-bo-bottie Domme friend of Mine for the Grand Pre-opening dinner at this nice, new restaurant here in Sac, where she has an “In.” It was nice; I looked great, so did she. We ate, drank and were merry for free! Mmm, the food always tastes better on when someone else is covering the tab… or so I thought. The food was cool, but not grand. The proportions were small, which was to be expected, but the flavor barely made up for it, which was not so to be expected. Really, what is the point of a $170 tab that consisted of a couple of Belvederes, wine, some olive/cheese/meat assortments for appetizers, then lamb, which came spaghetti squash and shortribs that just melted off the bone, which came with some kind of potato something for entrees, and cheese cake for desserts if it was just mediocre? We plan on going back, since her “in” has the hook up, but I hope it’s a better experience than the 1st. At least the food looked pretty, too bad I forgot to take pictures of it. you will have to settle for some of the nice scenery.

I took those pics while I was waiting for her to arrive, since she was late. And to think, she barraded Me about being on time, haha. Anyways, it was funny, while I was sitting at the bar, the guy a chair or so down from Me (not featured in this pic, clearly) started trying to hit on Me. I snubbed him as nicely as I could, since it wasn’t that kind of party. He was dressed like a slacker college reject. And I was looking like this:

(with black leggings and black knee high boots to boot!)

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I’m Back, bitches.

I know, I know… it’s been too long!  But I am back from LA, as some of you know, and I have been very, very, very busy with My site.  It’s coming a long nicely, so, I decided to take a break and catch up on all the juiciness that I have so selfishly deprived you of.  I will be posting a flurry of backdates from the beginning of December til now.  So, sit back, snuggle up, and enjoy.  This one’s on the house.

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iTunes help!

God! I have a massive headache that wont go away and all I want is for My Itunes to be formatted.  Is that so much to ask for?  I need to update My iphone tomorrow, I want all My music to show correctly in the Ipod.  Is someone willing to do this mundane BUT imporant work for Me so My head wont implode?

I will send you the zip, you delete the duplicates, rename the erroneous so it shows in My Ipod as “artist name – song” that way it can be easily sorted through for My convenience.

Yeah, I know service isn’t as sexy if I am not going on cam and shaking My ass, but whatever… I’ll have to owe ya one.

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Quick and Dirty Update

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My 1st QueenMail

So, as I have stated on many an online forum, I am not into BM in the conventional sense.  I think it’s a bit unethical, and mostly too much effort for the likely return.  However, I have been thinking about it more… and reading some forums on the subject and reflected upon 2 really clever ways to facilitate it to where I feel ok about doing it.  One is listed in one of My NF listings, and you little peckerwoods will have to pay to find out about how to partake in the festivities. 

…The other is what happened to jerkoffski on Saturday night.  He had to be punished.

So, under normal circumstances, I wouldn’t blackmail a boy who wanted to part ways for valid reasons.  However, nothing aboutjerkoffski is valid other than his bank account, because the one thing he had going for him was his sincerity, which is now farthest from… and therefore had to be taught a lesson.  So, as you already read, jerkface (his new name) contacted Me about serving in r/t.  We decided to meet at the mall for a shopping trip.  Well, after the shopping was done, we corresponded over the next few weeks regarding his service to Me.  We spoke about meeting up 2x when I was in the city, however, jerkface blew them off.  So, some time goes by, maybe a month or so… and I don’t ever hear back from him.  Fine… but then I see his scum YID slither online.  So, I dropped him a nice lil message…

<<For some stupid reason, LJ wont stop turning the IM transcript into gibberish… so lucky for jerkface I cannot post it right now, but just know it was nothing nice>>

So, as you read, My intentions are to punish jerkface for not being good to his word, wasting My time, and lying.  There was a lot  more to the conversation… it was LONG.  And unfortunately, I had to cut out some of the parts where I roughed his wimpy ass up a bit… but it got funny.  I just know he was shitting bricks and sweating bullets over there. 

But you know what I find even funnier? 

I find it rather comical that boys think they can get away with whatever just because they “no longer consent.”  you don’t have to consent now, but you did and you WILL pay for the consequences for renigging.  Why should I be the diplomat?  I am noone’s diplomat.  And over what?  a couple of hours of your time to do some simple tasks which you agreed to do, even begged for the opportunity to have–  detailing a car, dinner and now, some shoe shopping aren’t anything to get yourself in a bind over.  Luckily for jerkface, he wised up.  by this morning, he paid for the cost of everything in advance as a security deposit, just like we discussed.  And JUST in the nick of time too… he had a strict deadline of getting Me the moneypak number by 10am.  He beat the wrath by 15 mins, haha!

boys, here is a word to the wise (so I am sure this will go over most of your heads).  Hell knows no fury like a Woman scored– remember that quote?  For those that do, what does it mean to you?  Does that mean you shouldn’t submit to a Woman?  Hell No.  Submiting to a woman IS the only place you belong… however, what it does mean is that you need to be smart.  For a long time, I took the high road and just let you fuck off when you started acting up, because I knew you would be back… because you ALWAYS come back.  But, it got old and I don’t see why should I be Misses Nice Bitch to someone like you who doesn’t deserve it.  If you say you are going to do something, then do it, or don’t agree to it.   If you are looking to serve a good, trustworthy Domme, but then fuck it off and expect her to be ok with it, you are disillusioned.  you are responsible for you and when you stop taking care of your responsibilities, then you deal with the consequences.

Nevertheless, though, I didn’t Queen him for a million dollars like everyone else online, the fact that he realized I was not one to be fucked with was nice… because I was dead ass serious about turning his shit upside down for his trivial mistakes.

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Things to be Thankful for

1) Me.

-end-

happy thanksgiving, you jive turkeys!

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Los Angeles

I’ll be in LA from Dec 3-6/7th on business, but I want to mix in some pleasure too.  If any local Dommes are interested in meeting up and hanging out…

OR

if any “head-over-heels-for-Me-in-My-heels” slave want to do a little serving and/or exploring of the LA Scene with Me while I am there, then it sounds like your luck has turned over for the better.  Speaking of better, you better make yourself noticed by dropping to your knees and then dropping Me a line, pronto.

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