Mistress Madame’s manIFESTO

Taken from My manIFESTO page…

My Sexuality Empowers Me.

Sex amongst creatures is a carnal instinct that fuels population growth and species Domination, as well as the battle for resources that comes along with that. Control sex and control all that is stands for.

Sexuality, however, is the internalization of how we relate to sex (on a personal level). And as an identity, I, Mistress Madame, use sexuality to empower Myself and control what would be considered as traditional, male power- or, should I say your power. After all, if you are here reading this, you were intrigued enough to explore this site, which means, the idea of Female Superiority already has the capacity to control you.  Call Me to find out just how much more control I can have over you.

Female Superiority is not Female Supremacy, but either way, you will be Mine.

Female Supremacy is the belief that because Women are Superior, Women should have right to enslave men regardless of male choice. I disagree with this because I don’t feel compelled to force My Dominance on anyone unwilling. I believe that a male’s ability to execute free will in his submission to Me is far more empowering, not to mention delicious, than Me asserting absolute dominion over all men, whether they like it or not. Equally, not all men are worthy of such an opportunity, therefore I would never, ever bother to waste My precious time.  But your time, it can be put to good use if you aren’t too scared to test your submission against the mighty hand of My authority.

On the other hand, our society is comprised of tiers, though not quite a caste system, that very much support every day “Superiority Complexes.” Superiority is not bad, by default, though what you do with it, like many things, can be.  What I chose to do with it is share it consensually with those who appreciate and identify from a place of inferiority, in relation to My Superiority.  I am their Superior.

By projecting fear, men control people who they would otherwise not be able to convince to give up control. That is the historical standard for how men have achieved the status they have in this world today. And while Women have the capacity to inflict fear amongst brute men and admirers alike, such projection of fear is an inferior masculine trait that goes against what The Fatales stand for. We are Feminine women, who understand Our sexual power completely. We love the prowess with which We have been bestowed (just as much as you love love it, need it, and crave it), therefore, using Our Feminine influence, We command control without having to even raise a pampered pinky.

That said, do not misunderstand Our belief of free will as men having the complete power to oppose Us. A heterosexual man’s choice is never completely his own. Pussy is power, and all that man does in life is to advance his position in the attainment of the goal of merely achieve a whiff of Our divinity. And by doing so, he relinquishes power in his pursuit… and wise Women will always capitalize off it.

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When The Wind Blows

Periodically, I get so disinterested, so uninspired, so disconnected from the ideologies circling me in the BDSM world that I find Myself contemplating my involvements.  So, I am writing this with the intentions of making some changes.  I wont go as far as to call it “turning over a new leaf,” because this isn’t anything new… I have struggled with this before, so, instead, I will call it a different leaf. 

The leaf in question is the way in which I relate to things, chiefly, my interests and my sexuality within the context of BDSM.  I am tired of struggling to reconcile my identities as a Lifestyle Domme, a ProDomme and a FinDomme*.  I feel like though I don’t allow anyone to discredit Me (to my face, at least) for the things I engage in, that the flip side of that coin is that not enough people I engage with, naturally and willingly, give me the allowances they expect for themselves, nor do they give Me the allowances they offer others, without me having to do ridiculous amounts of “work” to earn it, so as to make up for what I am obviously lacking by being whatever it is that they don’t find redeemable.  Too often I feel like I have to make people acknowledge My validity or respect why I am here playing with the big dogs… And many times, when they do acknowledge Me of their own accord, it’s generally done as an afterthought, not a forethought (i.e. “I hate what ProDommes stand for- but you’re actually not like most I have met.” or “I would never serve a Lifestyle Domme- they aren’t hardcore enough, except you.”).  

But as I said, this isn’t My first time being frustrated with the relationships I have formed (and enabled).  And rather than discomfort others, or deal with the bullshit, I compartmentalize who I am and only engage partly with whichever community of the moment, so as to not have one identity hinder a byproduct of my other identity.  Thankfully, I am growing as a person, and through my growth, I am becoming more and more comfortable claiming my skin, even if that means making you a bit more uncomfy in the name of Me carving out My space here.  That said, I am opening up My blog to include accounts of things that happen both on and offline, whether they be in the realms FinDom, ProDom, Lifestyle Domination, as well as the various theoretical things I ponder and/or discuss on a regular basis.  And if you read what I write and deem it not sexy enough for you to serve Me, or not befitting of what you think a Domme should be (simply because you don’t Dominate the way that I do), then I will let you deal with those notions however you please, while I relish in the notion of finding pleasure however I want.

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Reflection: The Scene and Trust PT 2 of 2

Before reading this, I suggest you go back and read the 1st part of this post, that way you keep things in context.

So, this is a little late of a post, but it’s in reference to the 2nd of the two munches I spoke about being a part of a few posts ago. I attended this one on Thursday. It’s focus is completely different from the one I attended the night before. That one was a free for all, totally open, totally social, catering to every orientation in the scene. This one, on the other hand, was specific to Dommes and subs who worship Dommes. Interestingly enough, it’s mostly subs who attend the Domme focused munch, and male Doms and Female subs who attend the free for all– so, either way, I am part of the minority of both groups, but I digress.

So, Thursday’s Domme munch is more structured than Wednesday’s. It’s more intimate in size. People come in, chat, eat and then engage in the topic of the evening. Last evening, the topic was about emergence, which is basically, how someone acclimates into the scene. The leader of the munch brought an article written by a prominent Mistress by the name of Mistress Steel, I believe. To sum up the article, it was basically a time line of progression or digression, depending on who you were and how you related to the scene, that suggested at what times a person begins to engage differently, with themselves, their peers, the scene, etc.

Some things I thought were right on… like the part about being in the scene for 0-2 years and during that time, going through a feeding frenzies of consumption- being consumed (participating in activities) and consuming (collecting subs). I have been in the scene for over 2 years now, and I am still working out the kinks… and I find Myself going overboard with BDSM and it really takes Me focusing to recenter Myself.

I also agreed with other parts of the article, where the author talked about the experience from the 3-5 year milestones, where once the frenzies have ceased, many vanilla habits begin to be dropped. I have come out to pretty much everyone I know, family and friends included. I also assert Myself a lot more than I did previously, and openly talk about My beliefs in regard to sexuality and gender issues (something of which I was very quiet about in the past). So, I found this to be true. She also mentions that during this time, Dom/mes learn to be really honest with themselves, and become intolerant of the bullshit. If I had to make any adjustment to that, I would say actually say that this happens within the 1st 3-5 days, not years. Nevertheless, point well taken; please get out of My head.

However, there were many parts where I felt the article was lacking. For instance, there were references to the confusing feelings that some new Dom/mes may have when they 1st come out, which causes them to mislabel themselves as submissive or switch. This brought up the old, broken record rhetoric by some members of the munch, that for a Dom/me to be a good Dom/me, they must experience submission. I have ALREADY gone into detail about why I believe this to be further from the truth in PT 1 of this continuum, so I will not repeat Myself, but it seriously gets OLD.

This was also followed up by an additional points that completely disagree with. The author continues on to talk about the dangers of Online BDSM and predator Dommes as whole (r/t and o/l). And while predation does happen, it really frustrates Me that subs get off SO damn easy. What about predator subs who want to hurt Women? What about idiots who come online proclaiming the truest of true submission is all that they seek, all the while, they are only in it to fulfill their vices. And what about PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY?? Can subs take responsibility for fucking up and only thinking with their sexual parts for once? I mean, wtf is all this coddling? It’s like an AB nightmare from which I cannot wake.

There was one part in the article that left Me with conflicting feelings as to how I felt about what was said. Basically, Mistress Steel talks about many charitable people who voluntarily host BDSM events and mentor newbie Dom/mes and subs. This IS true. Both Dommes of the munches I have attended have been very supportive of My attendance, and have offered themselves in mentor-esk ways. …BUT (and this is a big but), I would really question HOW many is “many.” Throughout ample times of My journey, I have sought out both the friendship and mentorship of Dommes. Newer/younger ones, friendship, mostly, but experience/older ones, mentorship, always. And though, a couple have been really honest, really open, really giving, most have been shamefully selfish with their knowledge. For Me, this is both R/t and O/l, that I have either experienced or seen this lack of comradeship amongst scenesters and lack of sisterhood amongst Dommes. Sure, no one is obligated to care about another… and there are always the people who refuse to think for themselves and want to passively sit back and let someone else do all the work of “teaching them,” (though I got My start in R/t, this actually reminds Me of My beginning in the O/l scene, actually). Anyways, regardless of when or where it happens, the realy point is that the scene is fragmented with too many agendas in which people aren’t willing to rest aside for 5 minutes to help another out– and to Me, that is tragic.

Of course, I too am guilty, just like those whom I blast, but I can admit it, and that is the difference. And because of this, I try to make a conscious effort to help those whom seem genuine in their approach. I can only hope that others are willing to “one up” the few people who do extend a helping hand in this regards as much as they try to do in every other negative aspect… but it’s very possible that I am in fact asking too much of people in the scene. After all, we are the same people with the same problems from outside of the scene when we aren’t actively engaging.

/rant.

Ok, so now that I have nitpicked the article to death, I will get to the heart of this post. Again, for a 2nd time, I felt really uncomfortable with the direction that the munch turned, because after everyone exhausted all of the conversation that was to be had regarding the emergence, there was a transition. I am not sure how it happened exactly, but the as if the conversation hadn’t been subcentric enough, a sissy/tg/cd sub brought up the whole, “so who is really in control?” debate. And the only 2 or so identifying Domme/Tops responded by answering that their subs were. One elaborated by adding that, her sub has the last word and she wont ever make her sub do anything he doesn’t want to do (and within context that can be reasonable, but I doubt she was talking about life or death situations… it’s not like she gave the example that if her sub doesn’t feel like being shanked tonight, that she granted pardon). She also said that she basically just wants to make her sub happy. She wants him to tell her what he wants to experience, what and how he wants to feel, and that she expects him to communicate these feelings at all times. The icing on the cake was when someone, possibly the same Domme (I stoppoed paying attention), said she defines herself through her sub… “there is no Domme without the sub.”

UM, WHAT?

I may as well have been god smacked, because I was literally gobsmacked by that remark. And what made Me even angrier than hearing that same type of conversation from the last time I attended that same munch, as well as at the munch that I was at the night before, was that I didn’t say anything. At that point, it was late and I was extremely tired and I had just finished evading being seen by a friend (who knows I am in the scene) and her 2 year old son (who doesn’t), so all I wanted to do was not contribute to the conversation so we could all just leave. Not to mention the fact that I am still feeling My way around the Sac’s BDSM Scene and I didn’t feel comfortable enough being the only person with a difference of opinion at that very second.

In retrospect, I should have said something, but that opportunity was lost, however, it’s loss was not in vain. I did have enough balls to speak with the leader on the way out, about feeling alienated by the conversation’s direction. I told her that I didn’t want to give up on the group just yet, but I wasn’t sure if staying was worth anyone’s while as I strongly disagreed with the idea that Dommes are nothing without a sub and I. Surprisingly, she confessed that she thought similarly to Me and she encouraged Me to rock the boat next time. The only problem was that, I let the comments about how subs do and should have all the power roll off My back because I am TIRED of fighting with people about the fundamentals of D/s and BDSM. At this point, it seems kind of like a joke to even entertain the idea of playing devil’s advocate– especially when you really aren’t playing and you ACTUALLY feel completely different.

So, I am not exactly sure what I am going to do about the next meeting. I don’t want to quit. I want to work through My frustration and hesitance about being one of 25 who feels a different way [the right way] about Dominance and submission. I did tell her I would give it more of a chance after she convinced Me that it was important for others to be exposed to various ideologies and all that jazz…. But the truth is that I am not 100% sure that it’s worth it for Me. At this point, as I approach My 3-5 marker, I am super over the bullshit. And frankly, I have been vested in the scene 10x as much as the average person online and 5x as much as the average joes I’ve met in R/t. So, now I am being very guarded with My interests, My passions, and My time because they are valuable to Me (even if they aren’t to you). Furthermore, considering the massive transitions/huge learning curves I have undergone each year as a result of immersing Myself in as many BDSM related activities as possible, I think I deserve to be as picky as subs are (stated in the article) about who I engage with. And all things considered, from both nights, both conversations, and the above article, I have come to the conclusion that is not the Dommes who aren’t to be trusted, but the in fact the scene as a whole… and If I cannot trust the scene, I am not sure exactly where to go, since all I have been doing was working towards very specific goals which relate to the scene.

I just find the whole thing really disappointing.

I am supposed to go to a Domme Discussion Group on Wednesday… we’ll see what that has to offer. Hopefully, it will be more than I have gotten out of the last week of discourse. Either way, I have a lot to think about.

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Rejoice, because I am back, bitches.

Hello everyone. Miss Me much? I know you did, because I got a ton of fan mail from subs and some messages from Domme friends asking where and how I was. To the ladies, thanks for checking up on Me. To the subs, well, thank to you too. I rarely thank boys because I feel it is their obligation to put forth effort in making Me aware of them, but, what the hell. It’s the new year and My 1st post, so consider this your treat.

So, to answer the question, “where have I been?” I have been everywhere. Started off in New York City, then Napa, Ca, then San Francisco, and back to Sac. Mostly taking care of business but definitely been enjoying a much needed break from the online “FinDomosphere” as bennifer would say. Partying with My besties, going out with friends, being taken out by subs, being invited to fetish events, attending a pleasure party are just some of the things I have been up to. Also had some family and friends come into town, which was nice, and definitely enjoyed our new president’s inauguration.

I have been online, posting here and there on a few sites… so, some of you already prepared yourself for My return. I have also been immersed in some side projects that will be launching soon, which include taking My business ideas to the next level (thanks to advice from mzdevon) and completing 3 of 5 long awaited/long overdue sites that I have been working with My partners (TheMostHighExalted and bennifer). I’ll plug those when they are nearer to launch. But probably the most important thing I have been working on is getting back into school. I have decided that I want to go for My PhD, and get My Master’s along the way. My area of focus will be a culmination between Feminist/Gender/Sexuality/Social and Psychological Studies. I want to be “Dr. Domme,” as goddesssue put it. So, I have been talking with some professors from My undergraduate studies and doing some research as to where I want to go, and the requirements for getting in. I have yet to decided WHERE I want to go, but I definitely know it will take a lot of studying for the GRE which I will probably take in the summer.

Now, as for the question of, “how have I been?” I have been great! …Well, mostly. I am currently sick with a cold that wont go away, but other than that, since having let go of all the stresses in My life, I am doing good. By the end of 2008, I was really feeling the burn. I decided to put more effort into Me, and by doing so, axed all of the subs who served Me last year because they weren’t up to par and I am not for settling. I also sat down and put a lot of thought into the direction I want to go in life– hence the decision to go back to school. And I even decided to focus on getting healthier since I am traveling and doing as much as I am, I will mos def need more energy.

I have also been spending a lot of time with friends and family. My besties have taken a real interest in the R/t scene, so I have been talking to them a lot about events and related stuff. Before the end of ’08I also came out to some of My family members- Mom, cousins, etc. So that’s been great and really freeing to be able to be Myself around them. My mom has even taken interest in the idea of FinDom. I doubt she will get into it, and I am not sure I’d really want her too, but she did request of and received a gift from bennifer.

Anyways, that’s all for now. I do plan on posting some updates about My NYC trip and those projects I was talking of, so make sure you keep up to date!

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NYC, Here I Come!

Just back from the spa. Had a luxurious time having a neck, arm, hand and foot massage, foot and hand paraffin, and a soothing facial. Now My skin is radiant… too bad I am running late, so no pics for you… but a boy can dream, can’t he? haha… dream about how smooth to the touch My skin feels– though you wouldn’t ever be allowed… and how deliciously beautiful My white tipped finger and toenails look, though your filthy tongue doesn’t deserve the taste.

I still need to shower and prep, run one last errand and Off to the airport for My red eye to NYC. So, happy holidays to everyone. To some of you (you know who you are), I will see you in soon. To the rest of the unfortunate… I will see you in your dreams!

Check the Twitter for updates until I settle in tomorrow afternoon.

 Love Me lots and wish Me well. <3

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LA Recap for that Ass (updated)

So, this is the recap of My LA trip from a few weeks back… I spent about 4 days down there on business and pleasure. 

Wednesday morning was so hectic.  I was up at 1:30 am to finish packing and getting ready to head out the door.  I am surprised I even managed to do it since I was out until 10:30 with My friend the night before, having dinner.  I was leaving out of SFO because there were no more flights for the day I wanted, out of SMF.  Anyways, fast forwarding through the long drive, lines and posh accommodations ala southwest, I landed in LA in time for what I had to do– which lasted ALL day.  I thought I was going to die.  Anyways, once that was over, I headed to La Feliz, for a quick coffee and to wait for My friend to get off work.  Let Me tell you… I have never seen so many douchebags as I saw in that starbucks, in My life… including the time I went to Jersey!  All the guys were over processed, all the girls were hipsters, emos, or some combination of the two.  It was hard to even enjoy My coffee with soprano wanna be on one side of Me and fall out boy die groupie on the other.  Thank god it wasn’t a long wait. 

That night, I met up with Myy ex College Housemate and we had dinner at this cute little Thia house.  We were sat next too these two old, white guys.  Every once and while we made eye contact with each other… nothing big, though.  But I couldn’t help but think about how great it would be if I could dominate them into paying for our evening’s activities.  None of My LA friends are Dommes.  Though they know about Me being one, they are at most, slightly intrigued, but not moved enough to do it, unlike My Sacramento friends who are more extroverted and have participated with Me.  Anyways, the good old boys were lucky that night… The friend I was having dinner with wouldn’t have been ready for anything to go down, even if they threw their wallets on our tables.  …It was a nice thought, though, lol.  After that, we wrapped up dinner and took a stroll down the Hollywood strip and ended the night rather quickly because I was exhausted from My then, 23 hrs day.

Thursday was a wash, I spent it all day in PJs watching tv, playing street fighter and chowing down on NY style Pizza which wasn’t very NY stylish.  I did manage to get up the effort to get ready for dinner at “shaboo shaboo” (sp?) (some Japanese, cook it yourself at the table style restaurant) with My cousin.  It was really good food, even though you had to essentially cook it yourself.

Friday was a better day for Me.  I was to be spending much of the day with a bitchling.  The plan was to show Me around LA a little, find some fetish shops, eat and then session.  It didn’t actually pan out in that order, but everything that needed to get done got done.  It started out with him picking Me up at My friend’s house.  He was a cute little, 20 year old, hot body.  He was very well mannered and arrived early and waited patiently for Me to finish getting ready.  Once I was ready, I had him drive down the street to meet Me.  I did look stunning in My black dress, black latex boots and belt, and deep red lipstick.  We drove around for a bit, and talked.  He was nervous, it was cute.  He was also unfamiliar with LA driving which added to her nerves.  A number of times I had to direct him as to when to “take it” otherwise we would have never made it through a stoplight.

1st stop was Melrose strip. I didn’t even get out of the car, I was so bored of the hipster shops.  So, we detoured to this little gay area.  I forget the exact area, but it wasn’t too far from Melrose.  They had a kinky bookstore where I got batteries for My camera and a couple of fetish and sex shops which we went to.  I made it a point to get the bitchlings blood flowing, if you know what I mean, that way he’s be forced to walk around with a hard on.  In the sex shop, I even pointed out about the two small “drips” showing on the front of his slacks… to which he replied, “sorry, Mistress.”

The 1st sex shop we went to was just fluff stuff.  A lot of gay things, as always, but not very fetish oriented.  The bitchling was in panties, but they were way too small, so we looked at others and decided on another lacy pair, which ended up being too small as well because of his bubble butt.  I also picked out some stocking for him to wear later, which we never even got around to because things got pushed back a little with LA traffic.

The 2nd shop was much larger, less gay and more fetishy.  It had the usual sex gag props, which annoy Me because they are just stupid.  But they had this whole back area with tons of stuff.  I compared some of the items I owned with what they sold and was pleased that the things that mattered to Me, like My dog hood, were all of better quality than what they sold.  I didn’t have time to look around too much, but it was a decent place with lots of customers, unlike the 1st shop.  I could tell it was the “place to be,” with all of the interesting looking people– old couples, gay couples, young couples, emo-sters, Me and the bitchling, and some other college frat type guys.  I got some strawberry scented body wax, a lighter, red bondage tape, fetish dice, and a couple other things which escape Me at this point– of course, he paid.

Once we left there, we headed to grab a bite at this little french restaurant.  Because it was early in the day, all the old bitties were out in full force.  My boots got a lot of attention, which was whatever.  I was fully clothed– My knee caps were barely exposed between the dress and the boots.  I have a boatnecked dress on, and was even wearing a sweater becaise it was a bit cold.  I felt I was really conservative, but it didn’t stop the gawkers from dong what they do best.  I will say that this one old lady, she was totally cute, had the brightest red hair I had ever seen in My life… she gave Me a wink on her way out because she got Me.  Everyone else was just in the dark looking for the light.  I tell ya, they are lucky I don’t live down there, because I wouldn’t mind showing a few of them a thing or two.  Anyways, I ordered the worst tasting french dip sandwich ever.  How do you mess that up?  It’s bread, cheese, meat and au jou.  Never again!  I should have written this blog earlier, but because I didn’t I forgot their name.  Sorry!  Just look out for the signs- gaytown, LA… french restaurant, old people, etc; just keep on driving, trust Me.

After lunch, we headed to the room.  By the time we got left that french debauchery of a place, there was a massive amount of traffic, so it took forfuckingever.  Once we got there, we were pressed for time, because we both had shit to do later that evening.  I made him strip naked and kneel while I prepped things.  After I was done, and had everything all laid out, I made him freshen up, then inspected him and critiqued him.  I brought a lot of toys, some of which I ended up not using because of the lack of time.  I brought My 3 floggers, one leather, one deerskin, and the last of which was a tiny leather one for the genitals.  I also brought My dog hood, some medical tools, some gags, a paddle, nip clamps, and the stuff from the shop.  I had instructed him to bring the few toys he had, which he did, however, most were anal toys.

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Today Was a Good Day

well, it was actually a warm day in Sacramento… and though I had a late start due to My headache, I managed to get everything I needed done, with time to spare. Go Me! So, that gave Me a chance to check My PO BOX and to My surprise, some boxes came earlier than I expected. A week ago, some credit card, loser freak got Me some items on My wishlist for a themed photoshoot I will do when I come back… and some of them came in. I also had a mystery tribute which I love so much, that came just in time… a $200 GC to Torrid. Of course, I didn’t waste anytime blowing it on some cute dresses and leggings for NYC. Too bad the total came up to like $206 bucks or something. Next time send more, you hear Me?!

   

Anyways, here are some pics of the goods. Excuse the bedding or lackthereof… I am washing them as I type. I know there will be some more fun stuff waiting for Me in My box when I return to Californication in January… but I want more! I especially want some more books to read. you can find the wishlist here:

So, at about this time tomorrow, I will be at the airport awaiting My departure to NYC.  I heard it was extremely cold there, which I am not looking forward to, but eh… whatevs.  Some subs contacted Me on CollarMe asking if I was in need of their service… to which I replied mostly no, because they were lame, but there are a few potentials who seem eager and willing, so if it comes to fruition, I should have some good stories to share. 

Tomorrow I wont be around much, because I have to go to the store, then get a facial and then hit the road.  But I will be taking My laptop with Me because I have some work to do on My site which will be launching upon My return… so hopefully I will get around to doing some updates in a timely manner, but it’s not likely, lol.

Wish Me well, bitches!

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On your Knees for Me in NYC

I will be in NYC from Dec 24- Jan 2. I am extremely interested in visiting some fetish venues. So, any local subs looking to serve should immediately make themselves available to Moi.

‘nuf said.

Also, any cool Dommes looking to hang, drop Me a line.

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Updates Galore

So, as you noticed, I have been updating My blog like crazy because there is so much going on and it excites Me to the fullest. Lemme break it down for ya.

1) Don’t you just love the NEW BG for My various profiles? I know you do… because I do! Also, it is awesome in the best kinda way, and there is no denying that.

2) I would like to launch My Official Casino of Financial Fuckery page on NF. Enjoy!

3) I am working on My websites. The 1st of which, MistressMadame.com will be launching soon. RealmofServility.com and Dominatia.com will follow, shortly after. So, anyone interested in a link exchange, lemme know. I am accepting reciprocal banners of 300×100 sizing.

That’s all for now. I am tired and need to break from viewing this computer screen. I am sure I will edit this list a little later.

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Dinner for 2 on you!

I am back from LA. Had a blast, though it was a bit hectic. This past 9 days (subsequent to My trip) was such a blur… I didn’t even have time to write as I went, but whatever. I am actually getting to it now… in My usual late manner, but whatever! I know you will enjoy as always.

So, backtracking to Tuesday the 2nd– I met up with a hottie-bo-bottie Domme friend of Mine for the Grand Pre-opening dinner at this nice, new restaurant here in Sac, where she has an “In.” It was nice; I looked great, so did she. We ate, drank and were merry for free! Mmm, the food always tastes better on when someone else is covering the tab… or so I thought. The food was cool, but not grand. The proportions were small, which was to be expected, but the flavor barely made up for it, which was not so to be expected. Really, what is the point of a $170 tab that consisted of a couple of Belvederes, wine, some olive/cheese/meat assortments for appetizers, then lamb, which came spaghetti squash and shortribs that just melted off the bone, which came with some kind of potato something for entrees, and cheese cake for desserts if it was just mediocre? We plan on going back, since her “in” has the hook up, but I hope it’s a better experience than the 1st. At least the food looked pretty, too bad I forgot to take pictures of it. you will have to settle for some of the nice scenery.

I took those pics while I was waiting for her to arrive, since she was late. And to think, she barraded Me about being on time, haha. Anyways, it was funny, while I was sitting at the bar, the guy a chair or so down from Me (not featured in this pic, clearly) started trying to hit on Me. I snubbed him as nicely as I could, since it wasn’t that kind of party. He was dressed like a slacker college reject. And I was looking like this:

(with black leggings and black knee high boots to boot!)

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